Inside Tokyo's Competitive Sugardaddy Scene
“Never
go out with a tattooed, single mother from Kanagawa. They're a prime
example of natural selection failure. I learned my lesson the hard
way. She was way too hot to respond to my Tinder swipe. She bucked like a fucking bronco, man. I should have
sensed something was wrong before I dropped over a half a million yen
in support and gifts as her sugar daddy. In hindsight, her overused pussy was similar to fucking a tub of oil-no friction at all. Money grubbing bitch. ”
Chain smoker, Tomoyuki 'Pat'
Yamashita, of Tokyo's Ota ward is a very wise man. He is a co-founder of 革命的非モテ同盟
(Kakuhido - the Revolutionary Alliance of Men that
Women find Unattractive). The group founded in 2006, didn't agree
with his views of compensating women for anything (including sex) and
he left in 2010. The 49 year old bachelor is very active in Tokyo's
growing online Seeking Arrangement/ Sugar daddy scene.
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My new friend makes a good living as a landlord on a bunch of shitty, run down apartments buildings he inherited in the North end of the Yamanote line. He rents them to undesirable Asian and Africans well above the market price. He can do this as he most landlords won't rent to them and they have to take what they can get. The land is quite valuable and he's holding onto it for a couple more years- when the real estate market is expected to peak.
Why did you quit the Kakuhido
group?
“My mother finally died and I
got the land my grandfather owned. It's worth a lot of cash, so I'm
now much more attractive than I was when I was a delivery driver.
Also, they lost their way. I didn't start it to boycott Valentine's
and White Day as a media grabbing technique. That's the only press
they get since I left. Their current leader is full of shit. It
doesn't mean what I set it out to be anymore. They just hate women they can't have. Of course, if you're an
attractive or young woman in Tokyo, you can find a guy that will
support you financially if you want.
Yeah, life is definitely easier for attractive women. And, their pissed off about it because they're all poor guys who can't get laid by young chicks. The thing is, life is also easier for rich men, but their three-gender-category world view prevents them from seeing that, they use them as an excuse for 'activism' that comes down to 'FUCK WOMEN!'
Yeah, life is definitely easier for attractive women. And, their pissed off about it because they're all poor guys who can't get laid by young chicks. The thing is, life is also easier for rich men, but their three-gender-category world view prevents them from seeing that, they use them as an excuse for 'activism' that comes down to 'FUCK WOMEN!'
In reality, many of these
problems come down to the restrictive gender roles that
Kakuhido have been fighting against for since 2006, and I'd join
them in actual activism on these issues, if I didn't have these Yamashita family jewels
between my legs that need to be drained. I've got a lot of cum in
these old balls for a guy my age. If the remaining dozen or so
members came into some cash, they'd be right alongside me, online
looking for young trim.”
 One of Tomoyuki's many shit rental buildings in North Tokyo. |
Where do you meet your
sugar babies?
“Same as Americans. Online. Japanese women seeking
sugar daddys are flooded with hundreds of messages within hours of
posting their profile, making it very challenging to initiate any
connection. Normal looking guys like me could choose not to initiate
contact, but wouldn't get many messages because women are inundated
so much. So, we less attractive guys with dough have only one option-
to send many messages to many women with little sentimental
attachment to any of them.
Similar to making cold calls in a call center. To be a successful sugar daddy, you have to send many messages hoping to get a hit and not expect any response whatsoever, like playing slots. This coldness, actually gives the advantage to men like me, who are looking for casual sex versus men who are looking for relationships- it just takes more time and effort.”
Similar to making cold calls in a call center. To be a successful sugar daddy, you have to send many messages hoping to get a hit and not expect any response whatsoever, like playing slots. This coldness, actually gives the advantage to men like me, who are looking for casual sex versus men who are looking for relationships- it just takes more time and effort.”
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| Displays like this in every 7-11 drive middle aged men bananas! |
Are you open to looking for a
real girlfriend or a only compensated companionship?
“If I was a woman looking for
unpaid casual sex, I wouldn't even go online. Why bother? You could just go
to one of Tokyo's many 'Happening Bars', they admit women for free,
you know. Or, they could just smile at any foreign man they see
around town- Japanese men would most likely panic and avoid eye
contact at any flirty or sexually aggressive woman.
So, for a young woman- even an
unattractive one, it's quite easy to find a sugar daddy because
so many messages are coming and of those most are likely looking for
paid casual sex. The World Wide Web gives men the opportunity to be honest
and up front about their desire for compensated sexual relationships.
Most women in Japan didn't realize until using these sites, the huge variety and numbers of men who just wanted to fuck them for sponsoring their state sanctioned consumerism. Japanese women love these designer handbags from Fendi and Louis Vuitton. They ain't gonna pay for themselves.
Most women in Japan didn't realize until using these sites, the huge variety and numbers of men who just wanted to fuck them for sponsoring their state sanctioned consumerism. Japanese women love these designer handbags from Fendi and Louis Vuitton. They ain't gonna pay for themselves.
So, since it is inevitable that sexy, young gals will also be looking for full or part time sugar daddys, some of the married men
looking will find it. Since far fewer women are looking, if all the
men who are looking, found it, those women would be fucking
trainloads worth of guys if they desired."
So, are you saying all the young ladies in Tokyo are available for a price?
"Basically. I see and respect
your confused face. Nice, older guys like me can't find uncompensated,
casual sex anywhere, including online dating sites. So I'll offer you
some advice, Prince.
Of the small fraction of women
on online dating sites who are primarily looking for casual compensated sex, an
even smaller fraction of them will come out and write it in their
profile. You've got to read between the lines. And these young whores
are so picky about who they'll let have an arrangement with them.
It's ridiculous.
Remember, these are not prostitutes. They're not like that. I'm an older guy who has a lot that I could teach these girls. Some of them just need a little financial help and don't want to deal with young, broke guys who can't pay for their dinner. And, I've got time. All I do is collect rent and arrange stuff. Takes me about two hours a week to do my job. That's why I'm out in the pink salons and what not in the day times- now the broads in those places, they are whores. Don't kid yourself about that, my foreign friend."
Remember, these are not prostitutes. They're not like that. I'm an older guy who has a lot that I could teach these girls. Some of them just need a little financial help and don't want to deal with young, broke guys who can't pay for their dinner. And, I've got time. All I do is collect rent and arrange stuff. Takes me about two hours a week to do my job. That's why I'm out in the pink salons and what not in the day times- now the broads in those places, they are whores. Don't kid yourself about that, my foreign friend."
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| Tomoyuki's target sugarbabies need cash to support their pastimes and lust for brand goods. |
Did you ever
try dating women your age? I'm sure some divorced lady or a spinster
would accept a man like you without any compensation.
“While I've had free some
casual sex with very drunk girls in my university years, I never went looking for it.
Believe it or not, no matter how unlikely the match would turn into a
relationship the desire for the potential relationship, or friendship
that could lead to meeting more girls and a potential relationship, was
there. I might start a date not knowing if a gal was relationship
material, just someone fun to hang with or some drunk university slut
whom I would have a one night stand with. Given the situation, I was
open to all three outcomes.
Any tips for potential sugar daddys?
Any tips for potential sugar daddys?
When initiating contact
online, please say something interesting. Please show you've read the
profile of the lady and you found something in it that sparked up a
conversation. Just because you're looking for casual sex does not
mean you can address a stranger online with 'hey baby, let's fuck for 50,000 yen a week', sending a penis pic and requesting a return, or
something similar. Okay, so you've looked at her picture. You're so
horny, and instantly you want to fuck this woman. I get it... maybe
she'd be into that. Next step- read her profile.
If there is anything in it that doesn't fit, drain your sack into your Tenga and move on. Next step, You've found a beautiful young woman, you've read her profile carefully and think she's actually someone you'd like to be seen in public with... now what to say to her? Find some nonsense in her profile that might really get her going. Like, 'Oh, I love dressing up my chihuahua up too'. Then continue on telling her what you're looking for.
If there is anything in it that doesn't fit, drain your sack into your Tenga and move on. Next step, You've found a beautiful young woman, you've read her profile carefully and think she's actually someone you'd like to be seen in public with... now what to say to her? Find some nonsense in her profile that might really get her going. Like, 'Oh, I love dressing up my chihuahua up too'. Then continue on telling her what you're looking for.
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| Too good to be true- this tattooed tart cost my friend half a million yen before he found out she was a single mom. |
It's much better to have your
options open and be looking for the possibility of more than casual
sex. But if casual sex is your main thing, and your unavailable for
anything deeper, even with a really cute college student, then you
should absolutely tell her before you meet up. You're going to have a
lot better of a chance to get to the point of telling her if you
engage her personally and make her want to choose you above all the
other invites, to trade naked photos or comply with the request to
just one trial fuck for a bit of cash.
She will likely also read your profile. If it's all boring and you've put no effort into discussing how much you make and what you want, why should she respond? Unless you're spending some serious cash, I don't think many girls out there are seriously down to meeting up for half an hour to fuck a balding, chain-smoking middle aged man, in a sleazy love hotel and move on."
She will likely also read your profile. If it's all boring and you've put no effort into discussing how much you make and what you want, why should she respond? Unless you're spending some serious cash, I don't think many girls out there are seriously down to meeting up for half an hour to fuck a balding, chain-smoking middle aged man, in a sleazy love hotel and move on."
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| The dating cafe scene is full of pros these days. Not an option for a long term sugarbaby. |
What's your
success rate with this online seeking arrangement/ sugar daddy thing?
"While I've got some money now, I'm
not very rich by Tokyo standards. I think I've sent about 1500 messages on
Japanese dating sites and swiped right on about 500 girls on Tinder.
Long messages, short messages, detailed messages, original jokes,
compliments, mentioning things from their profile. Not much luck.
Don't believe the myths about how easy it is, spread by ignorant
armchair pontificators. I'm out there in the cyberspace going for it.
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| It's hard to take grown men seriously when they throw themselves at you online all day. |
More importantly, look for easy
arrangements on your own level of attractiveness and wealth. If
you're a 4 and not a millionaire and you're messaging 20 year old
8's and 9's trying to make an arrangement, you're not going to have
any luck. Start messaging 2's and 3's in their mid 20's, and you'll
see your success rate improve dramatically.
I've got these handsome finance
fucks, working in Roppongi or Marunochi, from good schools like Keio and Waseda to compete
with too. I don't think that the top 10% most desirable sugar daddys
in Tokyo should be able to monopolize the entire sugar baby pool.
Any bitch who wants to get steady money to support her lust for brand bags and designer trinkets, is going to have to seek dates from some other group than Top 10% of married men who are just serial playboys and won't be able to meet their longer term arrangement needs. These women will then either have to be frustrated or have to date from the bottom 90% of men. These cunts will find out the hard way."
Any bitch who wants to get steady money to support her lust for brand bags and designer trinkets, is going to have to seek dates from some other group than Top 10% of married men who are just serial playboys and won't be able to meet their longer term arrangement needs. These women will then either have to be frustrated or have to date from the bottom 90% of men. These cunts will find out the hard way."
